Big commit. Switched algorithm to one which will favor
the connection with the smallest pipeline first
(deciding ties by timestamp of last finished request,
and then by pid as ultimate tie breaker).
Note: this also drastically changes the internal
representation of the connection in ets and is dependent
on specific order of operations when changing key values
to limit risk of race conditions between loadbalancer
and a given connection.
Also removed connection reporting of start of request
as this was no longer necessary since the load balancer
tees up the entry into ets with a 1.
benjaminplee