This speeds up 'make dialyzer' for the common case of Erlang/OTP built
without --enable-native-libs.

* fix 'clean' to remove .eunit (not .test)
* add 'distclean' to also remove deps/

The custom queries are configured in rebar.config via the tuple
{xref_queries, [{query(), query_result()},...]}.  The implementation
passes the query() string to xref:q and compares the return value with
query_result(). It will result in an error if they do not match.

The following configuration, for example, is the same as running the
xref check undefined_function_calls. It additionally filters
ejabberd_logger:*_msg/4 from the result as these functions are generated
on execution by ejabberd and not available at compile time.

{xref_queries, [{"(XC - UC) || (XU - X - B -
                 (\"ejabberd_logger\":\".*_msg\"/\"4\"))",[]}]}.

This patch also modifies the build process of this package by running a
custom query instead of doing a diff against a static xref_warning file.