Rather than the caller having to think of what to purge or not, use
erlang:check_process_code/2 to detect if the caller (rebar3) may die
because of the operation.

If so, do a soft purge with a conditional delete instead of a hard purge
with a mandatory delete.

Prevents the killing of a plugin with itself

- Uses the code at https://github.com/tsloughter/rebar_alias and brings
  it within rebar3
- adds safety checks to prevent redefining built-in commands or obvious
  circular dependencies between commands (indirect circular deps are
  still possible)
- adds tests
- adds a systest to ensure no clash with the existing plugin

The path reloading of plugins had been fixed properly, but the problem
is that the paths it was using to re-load only considered the current
compile step, rather than the overall state of plugins. As such, the
reloaded paths after plugin compilation only reloaded the *latest*
plugin and not the other ones.

This fix forces the addition of all built plugin paths to the code paths
after a plugin compile job is run. This ensures that the path is clean
for initial plugin deps (only add those that are required), and is
re-made total after the fact (add all the plugins possible).

This commit also includes a system tests suite that can be run
optionally; the problem with this plugin mechanism was impossible to
find through mocked dependencies, and a working counterexample was
provided to us. The systest suite can be run against real projects
without conflict to make sure no regressions are hit.