When in umbrella mode (or through multiple profiles), users can specify
macros for EDocs based on either the {def, ...} or the {macros, ...}
arguments.

This patch replaces the prior options merging for umbrellas to use the
rebar3 tup_umerge utils to remove identical duplicates while preserving
correct ordering, and manually merges the {macros, ...} definitions
while ke eping the correct precedence rules since these appear (given
their behaviour) to be all individually extracted and passed as `{d,
...}` to  the compiler so that epp expands them. This compiler
function freaks out on any re-defined macros and explodes.

Do note that the macros with `{def, ...}` are edoc macros and do not
suffer from that issue, safely deduplicating multiple definitions.

This adds an additional loading and merging of options for EDoc using
the values from the top-level along with those specified in the
rebar.config of an umbrella application.

The app-specific config values are prepended to the global ones; this
can likely cause some problems with manual path handling, but is
unlikely to happen in practice and the rest seems to work fine based on
order

Fixes the issue in #2114

Instead of a hard crash, display an error message indicating which app
failed.

We can't report the exact failure; only EDoc does it to stdout itself
and we can't capture it.

Pre/Post hooks are run properly despite the failure, as per escript and
compile providers.