Adds a `--config` flag to the shell command to specify a config file.
If the flag is not specified, attempts to read the sys_config
defined for relx.

Removed separate compilers
Resolves apps to build
Finds avail deps before pulling/building
Includes relx
Simplifies build commands

ensure any processes with a reference to an old user process as their
group leader are updated to use the new user process. this introduces a
slight delay at startup as the system must wait for the new processes
to be registered. there is a max wait period of three seconds (before
the shell command gives up and throws a timeout error)

fixes #314 ("rebar shell" somehow blocks using io:format in gen_server
handle_call)

attempt to emulate the behavior of
`erl -pa ebin -pa deps/*/ebin`

fix error messages and formatting issues of `rebar shell` by
shutting down and restarting the user subsystem in a mode more
hospitable to the shell than the simple user started when run
as an escript. emulate `error_logger` behaviour when the shell
is run via `erl`

add documentation of the shell command

limitations:

the erlang interrupt handler is not enabled when running as an
escript and there is no interface to re-enable it via erlang code.
this means `ctrl-c` will immediately exit the running process
unlike when running the shell via `erl`. `ctrl-g` is, however,
unaffected

the user subsystem is killed and restarted but not supervised. if
your code somehow relies on the user subsystem crashing and
restarting `rebar shell` may interfere with it's operation

For now, this is just a proof of concept; would make sense to add a lot
of things, such as quick access to invoking rebar itself (with approproate 
code reloading), as well as an eunit-aware version so that tests could be 
run interactively.