Removed separate compilers
Resolves apps to build
Finds avail deps before pulling/building
Includes relx
Simplifies build commands

* update files
* fix Dialyzer warning
* unconditionally enable info fil
* clean-up inconsistencies
* use term_to_binary compression
* use try...catch instead of case...catch...of
* do not write build info file if the graph is unmodified
* store info file as <base_dir>/.rebarinfo
* properly support list of compile directives
* fix regressions:
 - Fix a bug in handling of files to compile first.
 - If a file that is depended upon itself depends on other files, make sure
   those are compiled first. While at it, rename variables for correctness.
   Reported-by: David Robakowski
 - Make sure that FirstFiles has no dupes and preserves the proper order.
 - headers referenced via -include_lib() were not properly resolved to absolute
   filenames
 - .erl files found in sub dirs of src_dirs were not properly resolved to
   absolute filenames

This speeds up 'make dialyzer' for the common case of Erlang/OTP built
without --enable-native-libs.

* fix 'clean' to remove .eunit (not .test)
* add 'distclean' to also remove deps/

The custom queries are configured in rebar.config via the tuple
{xref_queries, [{query(), query_result()},...]}.  The implementation
passes the query() string to xref:q and compares the return value with
query_result(). It will result in an error if they do not match.

The following configuration, for example, is the same as running the
xref check undefined_function_calls. It additionally filters
ejabberd_logger:*_msg/4 from the result as these functions are generated
on execution by ejabberd and not available at compile time.

{xref_queries, [{"(XC - UC) || (XU - X - B -
                 (\"ejabberd_logger\":\".*_msg\"/\"4\"))",[]}]}.

This patch also modifies the build process of this package by running a
custom query instead of doing a diff against a static xref_warning file.